Sunday, May 31, 2009

Tango with a Diesel. *This is long, mostly to have for my personal recollection. Good pictures though.

Last Saturday our entire family was happily driving home from a camping trip when we were hit by a diesel truck. (Or 18 wheeler as my father calls it.) The driver of the truck made an illegal left turn from the right lane of the highway while we were in the left lane of the highway traveling right next to it. We think he had missed his turn on one of those u-turn connector roads, and was trying to quickly slow down and turn across traffic to make it. Matt got over on the shoulder as much as he could but the truck driver never even saw us. We were hit on the front passenger side where I was sitting and pushed down a ditch, across the median and stopped right before heading into the oncoming traffic from the other side of the highway. My legs should be crushed but they aren't. Matt's arms should be broken, but they aren't.

Matt & I both feel that his mind was blessed or quickened to be able to assess the situation and make the best choices possible in handling the steering of our van with out rolling it. The highway patrol and paramedics could not believe our van did not flip. We were able to walk/hobble away from the accident while the truck driver was life-flighted to the hospital. We were wearing seat belts. The truck driver was not.

The injuries (not including the emotional ones):

Matt: bruises and scrapes over body, air-bag burns on arm, torn ligaments in left wrist, right hand going through the windshield and filled with glass. Aches and pains.

Jamey: one tongue bit through, air-bag burns, bruises, and broken tailbone or as we like to say coccyx.

Jay, Asher & Ridge: seat belt burns across necks, a couple cuts and soreness. Matt's fly-fishing float tube "ended up" landing in front of Jay and acted as sort of an air-bag for him.

As you can see if you are still reading this we were extremely protected in this accident. All 5 of us!
It was a horrible experience, but was also filled with many blessings. The Lord was watching out for the Jeppson family on May 23rd, 2009 at 1:20 p.m.

Here is a picture story board or our car accident. Pictures courtesy of our good friend Jason W.

*Disclaimer: I know I look HORRIBLE! We had been camping and I was wearing the Jenkins' girls "Big & Majestic" T-shirt which isn't very flattering anyway. I'm so happy to have been wearing that to remember this major incident in our family's lives. *

After we had come to a stop, and assessed that we were all alive, Matt led our family in a prayer of gratitude that we were all going to be o.k. and to please bless the driver of the semi- to be alright as well. I felt comfort flood my body that we were all going to be just fine, & that the Lord was in control.
I couldn't feel my legs at this point, but the feeling began to return to them shortly after this prayer.



Me crying. Jay eating a sucker that a sweet lady stopped to give to all the boys. Treats can be very calming to children in tense situations. I can see the wisdom in having some in our 72 hour emergency kits.

I am thankful for the kindness of strangers. The two men who stopped to help right after the accident. "I saw the mini-van and knew there were children! Are you guys o.k? I'm calling 9-11." "Let me see if I can disconnect your horn." (It started blaring on impact and hadn't stopped wailing and was upsetting the boys.) He disconnected the fuse, and the Asher held onto it while eating his sucker.

Our family holding hands, walking/hobbling away. Matt could barely hold Ridge.


Into the arms of friends. Our family away from family. I am thankful for the loving rich friendships we have here in Kansas City.










The diesel.




In this one you can see the through-road where he was trying to turn onto. From the FAR right lane! We gave our "statements" to his insurance company a couple days ago, and we learned he has been released from the hospital, so that is good. So far they have been very accommodating.



Our van.



Life flight team arriving.

At the tow-yard. Emptying out our belongings. I'm thankful for friends who will empty out your car while you stand around and look on b/c you are still in shock & feel like you are in a dream.
You can't really tell how caved in the passenger side is, in this picture. I must have instinctively leaned away from the hit when I saw the huge diesel tire coming at me out the window.


Side view mirror that ended up in my seat. My window was shattered.
This is where Matt's hand went through the windshield.

And in case any of you are wondering, yes it is the SAME hand that had the copperhead snake bite last year. It has also had deep bad bites from a Moray eel, and iguana.



This picture makes me feel sick inside.

Saying goodbye to our van. It was a good car. We will be getting a "new" one soon. We already have new car seats. I don't love mini-vans per say, but I do love them for this stage of life we are in. They are so convenient and roomy. Plus this one did a DANG good job of protecting us. I am thankful for insurance.

And so I don't ever forget, I am thankful for the noisy chatter of my 3 healthy boys playing happily downstairs.

17 comments:

Meredith said...

How can you put a disclaimer about how you LOOK in the pictures when all EVERYONE cares about is that YOU GUYS ARE OK!!!!

Gosh Jamey, I can't imagine going through all of that with my entire family in the car. Heavenly Father was completely watching out for all 5 of you guys that day.

And please, let us know if you guys need anything until everything calms down and gets back to being *normal*. :)

April said...

Wow! How scary! I'm so glad you are all okay!

Becca said...

I am so glad you are all o.k.! What a great blessing that you all came out with only minor injuries. (sorry about your tailbone, Jamey.) God really is looking out for the Jeppson family.

Carie said...

I love using the blog as a journal. You will be grateful for this account. (and to JW for all the pics.)

ON a personal note: I am grateful you all came out of this okay. What would we do without you?

flem-fam said...

OH MY GOODNESS, JJ!!! I am so glad that you guys are all ok. I made Scott come and look and we are just staring at the pics with our mouths gaping open. It is such a miracle that you only have minor injuries after an accident like that.

PS, I think you look hot in your B&M shirt.

Brenna said...

Everytime I see these pics I cry Jam! The one of your whole family "walking" away is so profound to me! I am so grateful for amazing friends that you could embrace when we your family couldn't be there for you!

I love you all and am incredibly thankful all is well (or is getting better)!

Matt, enough close calls already! I fear what your hand holds in store next year!

Brenna said...

I forgot to say how I just want to kiss the strangers that gave the boys suckers and disconnected your horn! Tender Mercies surround this whole incident!!! Who knows how to disconnect a horn, honestly?

Steph said...

Scary. That's all I keep thinking. I too, am so thankful your whole family is OK. And thank you for sharing this account and the many ways you were blessed - it is a testimony builder to see all the miracles large and small that can happen in a terrible situation.

Hang in there - and please, please call me if you need anything!

Clarissa said...

What a scary ordeal. I can't even imagine. Thank goodness you're all ok.

Norris Fam said...

Oh my goodness Jamey! I can barely type this because I can't see through my tears...

The part that really got to me was Matt's prayer of gratitude that you were all ok. I'm not sure if I would have thought of praying at that exact moment, but what better thing to do.

I'm so grateful to your friend who snapped the pictures. We love you guys and are so grateful that you are ok. Hopefully the "emotional" wounds will heal soon and your next mini van will be around for so long that Jay will have to drive it to high school :)

May your coccyx heal quickly :)

Melinda said...

Jamey.....I am so sorry to hear about this!! What a horrible experience!! I am so glad that you and your family are okay! It is truly amazing how our Heavenly Father protects us and watches out for us. I am glad that the Lord guided Matt to react the way he did, and I'm sure, that he was protecting you all through the entire experience. Our prayers are with you! Let us know if there is ANYTHING that we can do for you guys.

(Oh, and I agree, insurance is amazing.)

Daydreams and Reality said...

I'm so glad you are all okay! I cried when I read this...you just never know what can happen! Let me know if you need anything...whatever that could be...You were blessed and watched over...Miracles to happen! Love you, Deb

Williamson's said...

Jamey I'm so glad you guys are okay. Nina told me yalls van had been hit by an 18-wheeler and nothing else. I was in a panic! I'm sure glad Heavenly Father was watching over yall. Love ya girlie!

heidi said...

i waited as long as i could to look at these pictures so that i wouldn't bawl my face off. unfortunately i bawled my face off anyway.
i am so grateful that you are all okay.
i am so grateful for friends who recognize miracles and share them with us. i resolve to look for more miracles in my life.

Sariahfied said...

Thanks allot, I just put my makeup on and now I have mascars streaming down my face! I love you all so much! Words cant express it!

Kristin said...

OH MY GOOODNESS!! I miss reading your blog for a while and this happens. I'm so happy no one was seriously hurt. I'm so happy you all walked away.

Tera said...

I don't know how I missed this. I read a later post that referred to your accident and was completely confused.

I am so happy you and your family are safe. What a terrifying experience! Thank you for being so positive by sharing your gatitude. You are such a good example to me!!